Just like with movies, the first experience will tell you exactly how good it is. After that, your mind will be clouded.
Not really. Some movies/songs/etc. are "good" (or "bad") by virtue of their shock value, immediate impression, etc. Some get better when you see it or listen to it enough times that you start appreciating the nuances. And there are a number of other types. But I think it's a mistake to say that your first experience is the most (or even only) reliable, "objective" one.
I agree, I don't how many times I've listened to something dismissed it and then heard it again and again and I start to hear something I didn't the first time, music which is instantaneously likeable is usually the stuff I won't be returning to so much.
If it's taken it's time to work it's magic on me I find that more rewarding plus you can go back to music and spot little subtlties in it you never did before and it can be more rewarding, music which you instantly like, for instance the album What's the Story Morning Glory by Oasis was an album I liked straight away, after 6 months or so I was sick of it.
It wasn't about repetition either, hearing it too much because I've listened to OK Computer so many times but each time I find something new in it, I was impressed on my first listen but my opinion grew on each subsequent listen.
Films I experience this sometimes, the first time I saw the Exorcist I thought it was rubbish but my 2nd viewing changed my mind and by my 3rd I was a huge fan, first impressions are certainly not definitive, it may work that way for some but certainly not me.
I think surroundings and atmospheres can impact on this as well.
Edited by bond 16.05.72, 19 September 2008 - 04:50 PM.