I too work in the industry and have encountered my fair share of BS. However, to state in an interview that he was offered Spectre is taking it a little too far. He's bound to be called out on it and has as of yet not been.
Rern seems to be the last person to BS about such things - he doesn't appear to care less what the industry thing of him which is made clear by his artistic choices.
I can't imagine how you can be so certain about your assessment that he's lying - is it because it doesn't fit in with the opinions you have about BB and how she thinks?
Until proven otherwise I think it's fair to take Refn at his word, even if this does force some people to reivaluate how BB thinks.
IMO Refn fits in with eon's MO since the reboot.
X including Craig's casting. I mooted Craig and was very excited with his casting and equally so by Refn's statement that he was offered Spectre.
Bye, apologies for typos, I'm typing on the move