Sure, you can list similarities/coincidences all you like. But you can do that if you pick at random any two films in the series (well, just about).
It's the differences that count though. LTK was a darker Bond film trying to wear some of the bells and whistles of the consistently lighter tone of the preceeding five or six films. That's it's biggest weakness IMHO, in that it's attempt to be serious and edgy is undone by some pretty moronic moments that undermine the film, or more importantly the performance of its leading man. I've said before that TD in LTK gives one of the best three performances of James Bond, the man. He is the single most compeelling part of the film.
QoS on the other hand is a far more even film. Whether or not you like it isn't the point. It sets out to be darker, more serious, a character study even, and to it's credit, refuses (like CR before it) to compromise what it's set out to do.
QoS is unabashedly a take-it-or-leave-it Bond. If you don't like your Bonds dark then you probably won't enjoy it. LTK fails because (perhaps only because it was twenty years too early) it's saddled with the 80s EON attitude of "something for everyone."
I am trying to compare the feeling I had after watching LTK -89 with QOS -08, and nothing you say make sense to me. LTK didn't feel like "something for everyone". It felt like a totally different filmseries.
QOS, on the other hand, had elements that we have seen in previous Bondfilms (especially the Brosnan era). Bond being a rough agent and escaping from MI-6 was done already in DAD. A free-running sequence 5 minutes after the title sequence as in CR. Greene is more or less the same type of villain as Graves. We get big action scenes every 10 min as established in TND, and an inserted loud climax in a vehicle or building that destroys itself (as shown in the last 5 films). 'M' pops up everywhere as established in TWINE and the traditional villain speech and sacrificial lamb are squeezed in there. Just to give some few examples.
While QOS is more formula in its story, I still think that both films got the balance completely wrong when it comes to the Bond character. Forced to choose between them, I would pick QOS as it has a better title, better music and feels
slightly more epic.
I would say that QOS is slightly better as a Bondfilm, but LTK has much better action and somewhat better writing.
Please elaborate.
LTK has fewer action scenes and they are better integrated into the film and better directed and edited. Hence, it works better as a traditional action movie. The truck sequence just feels a little bit more effective than anything in QOS. The latter fails so much with the action because there is no tension whatsoever.