It was handled differently enough that I for one wasn't taken out of the movie, although admittedly it helps that the scene was spoiled for me beforehand (against my wishes).I found it less emotionally shocking because of the fact it was just a blatant wink to an age old classic scene from Goldfinger. This immediately removes me as a viewer from the immersion in the film magic they are trying to create as it makes you suddenly think "ah, this is a film referencing another film that was great 44 years ago in the hope that people will therefore think this film is great". It doesn't work that way, not for me anyway.
Then again, I think some of us overestimate how many people recognize it as a Goldfinger homage. We're finishing the first decade of the 21st century, and in my experience most people haven't seen that movie. Yet they still rate it as one of the best.

Agreed.If they had done something original (and good) it would have been much better. It's all very wel having all these homages to old Bond films but what about creating some new iconic moments at some point?
Yes, although the death of Fields was probably harder on him because they had been intimate, she was relatively innocent (Solange was married to a man she knew was a crook of some kind), and it was a more gruesome death. But you're right that part of it is also Bond having changed since Vesper.I'm surprised no one is mentioning how the QoS scene parallels the Solange scene in CR. I don't think you can judge the Oil scene without comparing it to Bond's coldness in the similar scene in CR. A great way to show how Bond is changing as a result of Vesper and maturing.
Agreed. Good analysis about the multiple meanings of painting Jill gold.The symbolism of the Goldfinger scene runs far deeper than in QoS, where Fields in oil serves only to recall a great scene and add spice.